What is one thing you would change about yourself?

Depending on my age, my answers would have varied. At 10, I blamed my circumstances; at 20, my appearance; at 30, my relationships. By 40, I regretted my choices, made without God’s guidance. I should have sought him more. I am sorry for the outcome. I feel I’ve disappointed God, although I know that’s not possible.

Are you more of a night or morning person?

I have equal appreciation for both. The day often lights my path on lifes journey while the night prepares me for the journey.

What are your two favorite things to wear?

I have a burnt orange sweater that I wear constantly. It’s extremely warm, although it’s not very flattering. The second piece I have is a zip-up hoodie that I found belonging to my mom. I like wearing it because it makes me feel closer to her.

If you could meet a historical figure, who would it be and why?

The irony of this question is being black, woman or both would’ve prevented me from being in the presence of a few of the historical figures I would like to meet. I believe that’s why it is important to choose who you look up to wisely. It makes me a bit of a rebel but I can only chose those who would choose me; that would narrow it down to Jesus and a few civil rights leaders.

What is good about having a pet?

I don’t know about other pets, but my dogs were exceptional. My Pomeranian, Copper, was incredibly smart. He was adventurous and friendly, but he disliked kids and anyone who tried to get my attention. When he died in my arms, family members near and far cried. I hope there’s a heaven for dogs, and that I will see him again someday. again. 

Kali, my rescue dog, is different from him. I’m not sure what her breed is; she is adopted and has a grateful, sweet demeanor. Don’t be confused—she loves to play and is just smart enough to know when it’s playtime. In fact, her perception of time and seasons is something I truly admire. She understands change. Whenever there’s a shift in my emotions, she rushes to my side to comfort me.

One day, I overslept my alarm, and she gently placed her two front paws on my abdomen and nudged me. She is a bit spoiled because I learned a lot from my previous dog, Copper, and I knew I needed to be a more responsible owner. A pet can be your greatest asset if you raise them right; Kali is my alarm, protector, and emotional support. In return, I treat her with the utmost respect and care.

Name the most expensive personal item you’ve ever purchased (not your home or car).

My diploma…. All of them to date have been very expensive.

Do you need time?

I feel overwhelmed with everything I have to do, and if I had extra time, I would take it. I didn’t truly pay attention to this until my 30s. Now that I see the bigger picture, I wish I had more time. I am 41 years old, and I wonder if I can accomplish everything in time. Do I have enough health left in me? These thoughts constantly run through my mind.

If I have a lifespan like my mom, that means I have less than 25 years left. If I have a lifespan like my great-grandmother, that could mean I have 60 years. I often think about the time I have left with my family, and I am grateful for any amount of time God gives me. If I could, I would gladly take extra time.

Invent a holiday! Explain how and why everyone should celebrate.

My day would be called Diversity Day, a joyous celebration of the humanities. An observance of the various cultures, religions, gender identity, and self-expression, inspiring a sense of unity and togetherness.

When you think of the word “successful,” who’s the first person that comes to mind and why?

Mastering the balance between moving and being still and effective communication and listening, is key to success, as Jesus shows. Knowing when to communicate or stay silent is key.