If he wasn’t good for her, why would he be good for me? A man who abandoned his wife. Who pretended to be asleep when we were hungry. Who called us stupid but did not educate us. Who provided a roof over our heads out of obligation but not duty. Who arguably and undoubtedly is entitled to freedom but nonetheless also to goodwill towards others, better yet your own flesh. Painfully, respectfully I have reconciled your actions to you and you are not good enough for me.